Have you ever been stung by a smiling assassin? Ouch! I have.
I got seduced and spent years playing this Yo Yo game of up and down, on and off, hot and cold. They walk freely amongst us, often unnoticed. Docile, calm and charming in their behaviour they rarely play the ‘in your face aggressive’ role. They move with elegance and ease and will often appear engaging and ‘on your side’. And yet bubbling away under the surface can be a Tsunami of anger.
The cost to you can be immense: your energy, your health, your team, your culture.